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Unsupportive Friends !!!

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Hello beautiful souls, I hope you guys are enjoying fall because I am. I will like to use this platform to also thank each and everyone of you for your support during my very first event in the big Apple (NYC).  It was such an amazing experience for me and everybody who made it. It's just beautiful to sit across a table with beautiful, educated and boss ladies who know what they want and working to fulfill that big dream.  When you’re in the throws of being so excited about your shiny business and the new life you’re creating for yourself it’s easy to assume that your friends and loved ones will be super happy for you and super supportive.   But what if they’re not? Sometimes the reality can be very different.  In fact, a lot of the time it’s different, it’s a really common issue for people and it can really start to hold you back.  It can make you feel ‘wrong’ in some way and question what you’re doing. Guess what? Not everyone around you will have the free will to support you. …

Support System!!

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Part of life is experiencing ups and downs. We want people who understand us and can be depended upon during tough times. We need people who will listen to us and give us honest feedback. Personally, I do not expect people to do things for but I'm loved by many with genuine support. Giving and receiving support from others is a basic human need but you have come to the realization that you may have to push yourself to certain limit to receive the help you need.  The goal of social support is to decrease stress. If you are looking to decrease stress by developing a support network, start with people who are already in your life. You may want to make a list and determine who is healthy and positive and who is not. This week was an eye opening for me. The support from my inner circle and some the important individuals in my life amazed me and I was completely blown away.  Life is not about about being in a huge crowd. What's the point if there is not genuine support? You may wan…